Saturday, September 6, 2008

Venezuela - Third Saturday

I can hardly believe the change in the missionaries after a week's retreat.  They are bubbling over with joy.  It is so great to see what God has done in their lives since Monday.

 

Nigel Burrows, a missionary from Ireland, taught the first session today on Single Missionaries.  He himself is single and did a fantastic job.  There were two single missionaries plus four older teenage missionary children who received the most from his counsel but all of us enjoyed his session.

 

Ted and June Sanborn gave a second marriage seminar before lunch.  The missionaries opened up even more and asked a lot of questions like they did the first session.  I think God is opening up a new avenue of ministry for Ted and June in presenting Marriage Seminars all over Venezuela. What a week it has been for all of us.

 

After lunch, we took the afternoon off to go up to the top of the mountain for some fun.  There is a small mesa on the very top of the mountain that has been turned into a public park.  There were horse rides for the children and teenagers, families were playing soccer with their kids, children were flying kites, vendors were selling all kinds of delicious smelling food, plus there was a marvelous view in every direction.  It was wonderful.  We stayed for about four hours just hanging out.

 

For the night session, I presented Dealing with Change.  Each of the missionaries are dealing with big changes because of coming home for furlough, the outgoing Missions Director and his family will be going to Peru as missionaries, and the new Missions Director will be coming off the field to become an administrator.  As after each session, there was a wonderful time of prayer.  With God's help, I feel they will make it as they deal with the changes facing them.   God is so good!
 
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Friday, September 5, 2008

Venezuela - Second Friday

 

The Bible School graduation was this morning at 10:00.  I spoke at the graduation last year.  It was a real honor.

 

Do you want to hear something interesting?  When I was getting sermons ready for Venezuela, the Lord gave me a graduation sermon.  I said, But Lord, I have not been asked to preach the graduation.  That was last year, remember?   But the Lord gave me a sermon anyway.  When I saved it on my computer, I even called it – Graduation Sermon.

 

Well, when I preached in the Bible School chapel my first day after arriving, the Bible School Director asked me if I would preach graduation.  I was shocked because I have never heard of anyone preaching graduation two years in a row, but immediately said yes because the Lord had already given me the sermon.  Fernanda translated for me.  I had just a good time.

 

After the graduation ceremony, we went to the Missions Office and had lunch.  The Venezuelan A/G General Superintendent, Bro. Eleodoro Mora, ate lunch with us and we had a great visit around the table.

 

After lunch, we headed back to the mountain retreat.  We missed the two morning sessions with missionary Nancy Roca.  Her first session was on Conflict Management and her second session was on Working Together as a Team.  Everyone said they really enjoyed her sessions.

 

In the afternoon, we interviewed another missionary couple and Bro. Mora preached the night service.

 

It has been another full and wonderful day.  This week has gone by so fast.  It is hard to believe that I only have two more days in Venezuela.  I have missed my wife like crazy, but I have enjoyed every minute this week with the missionaries.  They have become like family. 
 
 
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Thursday, September 4, 2008

Venezuela - Second Thursday

Today was another awesome day.  They seem to just get better and better. 

 

Ted and June Sanborn, the A/G missionaries I stayed with last week, arrived at the retreat last night in time for the service.  They had been teaching in the Bible School and could not get away until last night.  They presented a marriage seminar for the missionaries this morning.  Their session was wonderful.  The missionaries laughed, cried, asked questions, and just really enjoyed the marriage seminar.

 

Just before lunch, I presented a session Missionaries and Sexual Purity.  I was so glad Ted and June had just presented the marriage seminar.  It was almost as if this session was a continuation of their session.  Every session the whole week has just flowed.  It is almost like each session builds upon the last one.

 

In the afternoon, we interviewed another missionary family.  The word has gotten around among the missionaries that they are really able to say anything they want to say in the interview session.  So the sessions have gotten longer and longer but better and better.

 

At 5:00, Ted, June, Fernanda, and I had to leave the retreat to return to Barquisimeto for the Bible School graduation banquet.  It began at 7:30.  Ted was the Padron or Godfather for the eleven missions graduates.  Being chosen as a Padron is quite an honor.  Congratulations Ted.

 

The banquet was great.  As guests of honor, we were seated at a table right in front of the platform.  There were probably 1000 people in attendance.  We had a delicious meal, lots of special songs, and then the introduction of each graduation class with their Padrons.

 

The banquet was over by 10:30.  I told you it was another wonderful day.
 
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Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Venezuela - Second Wednesday

I began the first session today dealing with the topic Debriefing, sharing the importance of opening up and sharing ones emotions and feelings about things that happened on the mission field.  At the end of the session, everyone wanted to open up and talk, but we had to move on to the next session.

 

Sam Paris presented the next session about Loneliness on the Mission Field and steps of how to deal with it.  His session was powerful and well received.

 

Sam's wife Lisa presented the next session on Dealing with Depression.  Her session was also powerful and well received.  The Paris' can only be here for two days but they have been a blessing.  Both of their topics were very timely.

 

After lunch, we did some more personal interviews, letting the missionaries talk.  Each debriefing session is taking about three hours per missionary family.  They are really opening up and sharing everything.  It is so healthy.

 

For the night session, I dealt with Burnout and we had another thirty minutes of powerful prayer and emotional healing.

 

I am absolutely amazed at how God has touched the missionaries.  Their burdens have been lifted and smiles and laughter have replaced the looks of gloom and depression they had when they arrived at the retreat.  It is so refreshing.  God is so good.
 
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Venezuela - Second Tuesday

My first session with the missionaries on furlough began this morning at 9:00.  My topic was Missionaries and Guilt.  By virtue of the nature of their calling and work, missionaries face a lot of guilt.  Guilt because of having to leave the field and the work for furlough, guilt for wondering if they are being effective on the field or if they should return home, guilt for not having enough faith to believe God for finances, guilt for the suffering their children have to face on the field, etc.  Life is very difficult on the mission field.

 

My session ended with ways to handle guilt.  By the time I finished, there was not a dry eye in the room and we spent the next thirty minutes pouring out our hearts to the Lord, asking Him to take away the guilt and fill us with His peace.  He did. 

 

In the afternoon session, a Southern Baptist missionary/counselor Sam Paris spoke about Facing Changes When Returning Home.  He was a great speaker and helped the missionaries realize some of the changes that may have taken place while they were overseas; death of family members, divorces in their family, changes in the church, the government, society, etc.  Reentry is very stressful and the missionaries were thankful someone was pointing out changes so they could deal with them effectively.

 

Before dinner, the Missions Executive Committee and I did a personal interview with one of the missionary couples and their children.  They had faced a lot of loneliness and hurts while on the field and really needed the time to tell their story.  God brought about a lot of healing in their hearts through the interview process.     

 

I did another session for the night service – Missionaries and Expectations.  The topic was actually dealing with unrealistic expectations and the Lord did exactly what He did in the first service, He began to deal with every missionary about things that had happened on the field and once again, we spent thirty minutes just pouring out our souls to the Lord and letting him heal the wounds.  It was awesome. 

 

What a wonderful first day of sessions.  I am so thrilled the Lord has allowed me to be part of all this process.  What a privilege.

 

 

 
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Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Venezuela - Second Monday

6:00 this morning found us loaded and ready for the eight-hour drive back to Barquisimeto.  Fernanda's father said that he thought he could make it in six or seven hours because the traffic would be less as all the tourist were still coming to Mérida.

 

However, I soon discovered what he meant by the traffic being less – there was virtually no one on the road which means he was able to travel faster without getting behind slow traffic or big trucks on those narrow, winding, mountain roads.

 

And travel fast he did.  We took most of the curves on two wheels.  Her dad is a great driver.  He never drove reckless, just fast.  After about two hours of careening around curves, I got dizzy headed and had to ask him to pull off the side of the road to let me throw up.  When we stopped, he told me to spread my legs apart and bend over from the waist, keep my head looking straight ahead with my eyes open, and slowly raise up and down.  Wow!  It worked.  After about three to four minutes we were able to go again and I was all right the rest of the trip.  Glory!

 

When we arrived at the Bible School, the Missions Office was buzzing with excitement as all the missionaries who are home on furlough arrived.  The bus came after about 30 minutes and together with two or three cars, we were all able to head up to the mountain for a retreat.

 

When we arrived at the hotel, (Click on the word hotel) our rooms were not ready so the manager asked all of us to walk up to the town plaza and wait for him to call us.  After about an hour, we all checked into our rooms and to my surprise, we had hot water.  Glory!  It was going to be a good week after all because the weather is around 50 degrees up in the mountains.

 

There are six missionary couples with their children plus two single lady missionaries.  So it is a good crowd.

 

The Missions Department did the opening address tonight in the form of an illustrated sermon.  We were all asked to go out into the parking lot.  When we were all assembled (remember it is 50 degrees), the person in charge had a 3 foot by 5 foot photo of the beach with the word Summer written across the top.  He began to speak to us about feeling the warmth of the sun, hearing the sounds of the sea gulls, sweating, and becoming real thirsty.  Suddenly he said, Hey, who is thirsty?  Several of the teenaged Missionary Kids raised their hands and the guy went over to a little six-pack cooler and brought six of them a drink.  Then he said, Who else is thirsty?  Several more people raised their hands thinking it was some kind of trick because the little cooler.  He then said, Life is not always as it appears, opened the back of a SUV and started passing out sodas to everyone.  He then preached about life on the mission field in the Summer, when everything is going great.  The time when people are being saved, churches are being planted, and life is exciting.

 

He then asked us to go to the next station.  When we arrived upstairs on an outdoor verandah, there was another poster with Autumn written on it.  There were some crackers and cheese for snack foods and the speaker began to compare life on the mission field to the Autumn.  Life is still good, the people are maturing in the Lord, a lot of the leaves are changing colors as people take on different ministries and responsibilities.  She then asked us to go to the next station - Winter.

 

At the Winter station, a table was loaded with all kinds of fruit – Apricots, strawberries, grapes, etc., and the speaker began to talk about winter on the mission field, when nothing seems to be happening, life becomes more of a walk of faith, but a missionary must continue working through the winter.

 

The last station was Spring.  A table was loaded with cut flowers for everyone.  The ladies really enjoyed making a beautiful bouquet for their hotel room.  Of course Spring is always exciting with new growth, new ideas, fresh vision, etc. 

 

 

 

Each station took about fifteen minutes each.  It was very effective and very creative.

 

We were then all instructed to go to our rooms for the night because breakfast would be at 7:30 a.m.  It is now way after 10:00 p.m. and has been a long hard day for everyone.  Good Night.

 
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Sunday, August 31, 2008

Venezuela - Second Sunday

We had a great trip Saturday to Mérida with Fernanda's Dad.  He is a great conversationalist.  The scenery was absolutely fantastic.  As the hours passed, the higher we drove into the Andes.  At every turn in the road, a different view greeted us and the air became more and more crisp.  About every thirty minutes, the flora would change as we climbed to another level.  Mr. Vielma would point out the differences and tell me the name of the various trees and bushes.  I think the most interesting bush was the Frailejon (click on the name – it is the third photo).  It lives 150 years.

 

About two hours before reaching Mérida, we stopped to visit Fernanda's aunt and cousin and had a delicious cup of tea.  About an hour later, we stopped at the home of another aunt for a delicious dinner.  This aunt came to the States with Fernanda's parents when Fernanda graduated from Southeastern.  It was good to see her again. The weather was freezing.  We were about 10,000 feet up in the Andes.

 

We finally arrived in Mérida at about 9:00 p.m.  As we rounded a curve coming into the city, the traffic was backed up all the way up the mountain.  August is holiday season for the people of Venezuela and Mérida is the Gatlinburg of Venezuela.  It took us almost an hour to get to Fernanda's house, usually a ten-minute drive.

 

Fernanda's Mom met us as we drove into the gate.  We had a good family reunion and visited for another hour before going to bed.  Fernanda's home is beautiful.  The front verandah looks out over the highest mountain peak in the Andes and the cable car that goes up to the top.  What a view.  It had rained on Friday so the tops of the mountains were covered in snow.  It was also freezing.  I slept under two blankets.

 

Today, we attended the 8:30 service of Fernanda's church.  We really had a great service.  It was good to finally see the church because Fernanda is always talking about.  The church hosts an annual Youth Conference that attracts youth from all over Venezuela.

 

After church, Fernanda's Mom treated us to a delicious lunch at a food court.  While we were eating, who should walk into the food court but Mickey Mouse, Minnie, Goofy, and Donald Duck.  Everyone went wild with excitement.  I thought, what a small world.  It was great.

 

We spent the rest of today visiting all of Fernanda's aunts.  They all own souvenir shops within a couple of blocks of each other near the zoo.  She must have a hundred aunts.  They all love her and are her biggest supporters, both financially and with their prayers.

 

I am headed to bed tonight at 10:00 because we are heading back to Barquisimeto in the morning at 6:00 a.m.  It has been a great weekend.

 
Dr. Rodney White

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